FEBRUARY: GOD CALLED A FAMILY TO BE A BLESSING
Concept:
This is the ancestral story of the people of God. It’s the story of a family who heard the call of God to be a blessing to the world. The people in these stories missed the mark a lot. They often fought with each other, tried to shape the future the way they wanted it to be, and did things that hurt others instead of being a blessing to others. But God stuck with them and kept reminding them of who they were and of who God was. Photo by Jan Canty on Unsplash
This is the ancestral story of the people of God. It’s the story of a family who heard the call of God to be a blessing to the world. The people in these stories missed the mark a lot. They often fought with each other, tried to shape the future the way they wanted it to be, and did things that hurt others instead of being a blessing to others. But God stuck with them and kept reminding them of who they were and of who God was. Photo by Jan Canty on Unsplash
Read It: Genesis 12:1-2 (The Peace Table pg 26-27, Shine On pg 25)
Now the Lord said to Abram, “Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. 2 I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing.
Now the Lord said to Abram, “Go from your country and your kindred and your father’s house to the land that I will show you. 2 I will make of you a great nation, and I will bless you and make your name great, so that you will be a blessing.
Pray It: God, you call us to be a blessing. Like our spiritual ancestors, we often miss the mark and forget how to be a blessing. Thank you for always sticking with us and loving us. Amen.
Do It:
- Read more of the ancestral story. Read The Peace Table pages 26-46 or Shine On pages 25-39 over the course of the month - you’ll get the full family saga!
- Artistic representation: Using whatever medium you like - playdough or clay, drawing, pipe cleaners, pegs, natural things like sticks and bark… - create the generations of the family.
- Tell your family stories: This is the ancestral story of the Jewish people - and as Christians, we are adopted into this ancestral story. What are your family’s ancestral stories? As a household, tell the stories of who in your family first left their home and came to a new place, or your grandparents’ migrant journey, or how your parents met and decided to have a family together. These stories don’t have to be perfect to be effective - in fact, a family story that includes some messiness builds resilience (see Mark Yaconelli’s excellent book, Between the Listening and the Telling).
- Family Tree: Make a family tree of Abraham/Sarah/Hagar’s family (make sure you include everyone…including characters like Bilhah and Zilpah). If you look up “Abraham family tree,” you’ll find lots of information. I don’t love the way most are drawn (pretty blatantly patriarchal), so maybe you can find a new way to draw them (share it with us if you do, we’d love to see it!).
- Make your own family tree. This family tree and the one of the biblical ancestral story can serve as prompts for telling stories.
- Be a Blessing: God called this family to be a blessing, and God calls your household to be a blessing, too. How might you be that blessing to others? Invite someone over, or shovel snow in a neighbor’s driveway, or go visit someone who is sick or housebound, or draw pictures and make cards and send them to someone…the possibilities are endless.
- God created, and it was good.
- God called a family to be a blessing to all the earth.
Explore It: Notes from Tami
- A common bedtime request when my children were young was, “Tell me a story about when you were a little girl.” It was surprising how many little snippets of my past came to mind through daily routines and happenings. Sometimes, I substituted stories about myself with stories about my husband, siblings, parents, or other ancestors. And sometimes, I wondered if their interest and questions for further details were a delay tactic to put off going to sleep. But, as I look back, I realize how valuable those little stories (sometimes embellished a bit!) were for helping my children learn their family story, their family history.
- "A people without the knowledge of their past history, origin and culture is like a tree without roots." — Marcus Garvey, Jamaican-born activist, journalist, and orator Here are 6 Benefits of Knowing Your Family History
- God said “I will bless you….. So that you will be a blessing.” The blessing isn't a selfish thing. What does it mean to be a blessing to others?
- You can make a beautiful artistic or a very crude family tree. Family trees can be done simply for youngest children: Children/siblings, parents, grandparents, great grandparents. Or can be very complex for older kids who might become fascinated by how their ancestors branch out into so many people - cousins, aunts and uncles, great aunts and uncles, 2nd cousins, etc. Here are a couple of ideas:
How to make a family tree with kids Sample family tree design